DLP link is for the non-RF glasses, so you want VESA 3D.

3D for the next setting (L or R is for if you want to watch the left or right eye’s view in 2D)

Next one depends what you are watching: you want frame sequential for 3D Blu-ray.

Finally the sync invert swaps the eyes L for R. Leave it off, and if the 3D looks all wrong, try switching it on. Whether this setting is needed can vary from film to film.